Being
right doesn't matter. We are all right and all doing the best we can with
what we have. In blaming and being righteous we give away our power to
change and heal by staying stuck in the problem. As a client of mine once
said, "There is no problem that can't be solved if you break it down into
small enough parts." Further, by focusing our energy and intentions on
finding solutions we create movement which creates a space where solutions can
evolve. While we cannot control other people or the results of our actions,
our power lies in our ability to consciously choose our intentions and our
actions. We need not stay stuck in the problem, nor have the same
frustrating conversations repeatedly. We can use the power we do have to
seek and find solutions.
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